Something's you can not express !
Writing a blog and starts with that! Yes it is true that you can not express somethings.
Like what you would ask?
Well ask yourself, what you can not express.
We cannot express love over voice. Ohh wow. If you think you did it a lot of times, please don't read the rest.
But if you really think when you did it last time or it is possible ! he is writings are crappy, please again don't go through the rest.
Think of this then! Do you love your mom and dad, have you ever expressed your love towards them? Okay they love you for obvious reasons but, have they ever expressed it to you.
Oh com on! Mom and dad will never express their love! Ok I accept it they will never express but they will show towards you ! Hmm in that case we do the same, oh god please satisfy saying that because we really never did it , oh ya ... I showed them respect, I love them, but , I mean have you ever? Really ? Cross your heart and ask it yourself you will know. ! ! ....
Ha ! I know you started reading this line after 2 to 3 minutes of silence.. now think of it. Whatit would be like expressing your love towards some one who you really care, be honest and write that name on a piece of paper now because your decision may change.
Caring doesn't mean you ask them how are you? You had food today ? What happens when they walk alone in dark? What happens to their health? These kind of caring, please show it somewhere where you like them but don't confuse with the word love. ..
Today, my best buddy asked, you love someone and you were in phone conversation for an hour with another girl while the loved one sitting next to you in a car, what priority you give to loved one?
My answer was this, there are multiple words that people will confuse when it comes to their feelings when emotion is on their way. They are : I love, I like, I loved, I liked,
Loved one sitting next to you, there is a friend on the call for an hour doesn't mean you disrespect or ignored the one sitting next to you, we are sitting next to each other because you are in love too , if not I would have been with the girl in the phone conversation and will be calling you on your phone, so if you really love and sit next to someone, you should understand the feeling of the person who you are in love with and respect that conversation with broad mind so he or she will reciprocate the same when you are in a call.
So, if you bring priority between friend and a loving one, it's not love, it's a thing you do or a to-do list with high priority, so again there's nothing called priority in front of loved ones because you live in a world of crazy people confuse love with other feelings.
So, let's come to our conversation again, do you love your mom or dad and a girl, and vanilla ice cream? And a movie star? Also your bike, car, mobile, ring,
Yeah, now we are talking, we said those things correct? So do you really think you can express love. Here is the difference you like - things, we love feelings not a person,
So, what my dad told me a long time ago, thanks again Dad for tell me this at a very young age that... Whether you're parents are with you or not you always worship them with out any expectations and you do the same with the God, if you can worship someone and share your emotions with someone without any suggestions/solutions expecting from the one - it means you are in love. It's not a given take policy like respect, you can always love someone but if no response from them, don't worry keep loving and the person you love will definitely love another one and will know your emotions one day, no explanation required.
Now open the peace of paper you wrote earlier with your loved ones name on it, tell me do you really love that person? Have you ever expressed your feelings towards them? Do you expect something from them ? If not please please call them or meet in person and let them know, you love.. And you will continue to love even if they don't.
Finally, this is my feeling, if you feel any better share with me, if you know better share with me, if you love someone talk to them.
Rks chavali..
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